So Far Away ...

So, I'm blogging right now from my work, which is now Jenny Craig H.O. (They call it "Home Office" ... prob. in some feeble attempt to make it sound more "Friendly" and less "Cold and Corporate", even though, that's pretty much what it always is when you sit in a cubicle.

Have you ever experienced one of those moments when you're looking through old friends photos, or those who live "back home" and realize how completely removed from their lives you've become (By way of distance, or maybe just lack of time).
Sure, technology enables us to shrink our physical surroundings and make our little "world" more closely intertwined with each other. By the modern day vantages of Facebook or myspace we're able to keep "in touch" with friends and family, see their photos-- see what's goin' on in their lives.
But I wonder sometimes, if our definition of what we think being "close" to someone is, is in reality, getting colder and colder, like this big white building where I work now.
With each little work station compartmentalized neatly, all the walls looking exactly the same ... we become removed from the REAL personal connection of a warm smile or hug and a soothing cup of something warm (tea?) and replace it with an email, a "wall posting" or a "ooo, look at how cool I am and what I'm doing on the weekends" picture.
I think it's affecting our culture to a point where we are getting closer and closer to a "matrix" type future, where we live "virtually" instead of the REAL: Face to face, mono e mono, I-love you-and-care-about-you-world.
It's great to keep in touch, but what about BEING touched, with a hug, or a smile? Nothing can replace the genuinity (yes, I just made that word up) of that, it's what we're made for.

I only hope that this blog serves more of a glimpse into myself than what I can give my family and friends, being so far away, physically from everyone. I hope it never comes across as cold, or trite, but a real glimpse into my days and my soul.

Till next blog.

Comments

Anonymous said…
hi honey.. i hear you. i guess we have to make do with what we have hey? i definitely love visiting "you" in your blog, and look forward to the day when we can reconnect in person. don't give up babe. friendship and warmth lurk in unusual places. em.
Anonymous said…
Hey Miss Amy, I couldn't agree more! I have definitely had my concerns about what our 'virtual world' is doing to our minds...and what it will do to our future kids especially. That is assuming we will still have kids in the future and not just those tomagotchi pets haha. It's hard to not feel fragmented, to feel like my creativity and my social interactions are displayed online and less 'live'. I can't imagine what it is like being a teenager right now. With things like myspace/facebook/blogs...how are people's images of themselves being shaped, when most of their interactions are guarded by a screen? Do people still have to take responsibility for what they say/do when it's over the internet? (They should)
Anyways, hope that wasn't too much of a rant. We are going to have a strange next 20+ years.
.a. said…
no way girl! I LOVE Rants -- in fact, I'm usually all about them =)
That's partially what this blog is for! lol a.
Christie said…
Hey Amy, I totally share your concern. It seems like nowadays some people won't even call the person they need to talk to, because they'd rather say what they need to say via text message, facebook message, myspace message, and that way they only have to express what they need to express, without having to engage in conversation with the other person. Not that messaging is bad in and of itself. But when it replaces our primary means of communication, it makes me think, "No wonder the teenagers of this generation have a tendency to be completely self-centered and horrible at listening to other people...they thrive more by being self-centered and don't HAVE TO listen to other people." I'm with Alyssa - what will our kids be like in 20+ years? And how will this technology shape their ability to develop a healthy identity. I know developmental psychologists are already studying the effects of internet-land on adolescent identity development. I suppose only time will tell.

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